Trying to think of techniques to help me detach from H as party time is quickly approaching and he will be here. I know people have said that pretending he is a neighbor helps. I think I'm going to try some imagery too. Imagine that he's encases in some sort of foggy screen or something....so here's there but NOT. Or maybe imagine him as a clown in giant clown shoes, so I can't help but look at him and smile/giggle a little. Maybe a clown with giant shoes in a foggy mist? Lol! No clue if these will help but I'm going to give it a whirl! I'll report back.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14