I agree in principle but I don't believe the anger helps you, physically at least. And I know it's not great for the baby. So I truly, truly hope you'll let it go.
Actually, I agree with this. ^^^ Just couldn't find an emoticon (from our very limited selection . . . c'mon, admins!!) that said "Mamabear."
A good mamabear will do her best to keep her cubs from ever encountering danger to begin with, and will only rise up and attack when provoked.
Starsky (who's much more comfortable with the "wolf/sheep/chickens" analogies)