Hi Tears, The decision whether to file for D or not is a very personal one and only you know when that time has come. But you are still very early in your sitch and are under much stress right now. I know that feeling of anger, the "How could they". Just be sure before you do file that is really what is best for you and your family. Protect yourself for sure, get as much info about what can be done in the way of protecting yourself and family but do take a deep breath before you actually start the process. Now, if like my W, he files first then you have no choice. I know how angry and hurt I felt at the point you are in this process and I came close to filing after some of my W's antics. Just know that things can change, that is what DBing is about. Good luck Tears, we all are here for you!
