Okay. We all get reality checks and well, you have yours. Now, take care of you and the kids. You need to go dark and take care of yourself.
Absolutely agree with this, Twin. ^^^
Mamabear. Starsky
I agree in principle but I don't believe the anger helps you, physically at least. And I know it's not great for the baby. So I truly, truly hope you'll let it go.
Because He is literally not worth this amount of energy. In a horrible but true way, he's done you a favor. Get out now while you can.
I'm so sorry...truly...but let this be a warning to us all. If you date a "divorcee", find out ALL the facts before you get attached.
It's news like this, that would have given you a LOT of pause, I'm sure. Had you known you were the affair, you'd have 2+ fewer children, so maybe you can argue that it's a blessing.
But it has run its' course.
(((( ))))
PS I'll ask DueInMay to stop by. I know she changed her name, but I know her.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
