No I appreciate it. We did have some lack of privacy due to buying into a shared house. It was a great offer that turned sour. I did become withdrawn as I saw my wife was already tired from work and always stressed, so I didn't confide in her as much as I should have for a few months. I just didn't want to add pressure on her.
A lot of our problems are really down to a temporary communications issues. None of her previous issues with myself or our marriage have existed for a long time now.
I have a new career, doubled my income, I have honestly never looked as good as I do now and I am so much more open and cheerful than the man she left.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014