Wow, that is an enlightening look into the MLC mind! As much as all this has really been a painful and stressing sitch, I wouldn't want to be in the MLCer's frame of mind. I know my W is miserable and no matter what she has said or done, I wish that wasn't so. I know she just wants to stop feeling that way but by picking me and her marriage as the source, she has turned her, my and our girls lives upside down and is causing so much pain to so many. I truly hope she finds peace with or without me.
I have a quick question that I'd like your opinion about. As it stands now, my W usually lets me know when she isn't going to be home (unless she is doing something she is trying to hide from me, like going to L or looking for a place to move to). Because of this I texted her to let her know I was going out and where. I feel as long as she is doing the same, I should extend the same courtesy. She also will let me know when she goes to the store and ask if I need anything and, again, I do the same. I figure as long as she is doing this, I should as well. Do you agree? Or should I be more mysterious? Thanks Wonka!
