Things with the OM began to develop through Feb 2013.
In January she still cared and loved me, asking for me to "step up". There was also a big misunderstanding the following day, regarding an offer my father in law made. A new job and somewhere to stay in rhe US where my wife is from.
My wife expected me to reply to that offer immediately. As I had returned from the hospital visiting my grandfather in his last few days, I just wanted to go to sleep.

This misunderstanding caused her to voice her concerns in our future to her boss. Who manipulated that.
I saw the IM's between them.

Afer the bomb drop, I said that I wanted to accept my father in laws offer.
"Now you f!@#ing tell me!" She screamed. (The only tine she ever screamed at me)

Last edited by RedHawk98; 05/30/14 06:14 PM.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014