Your legal response should be to ask for counseling if you haven't already. In most states, not sure which you live in, will ask that you do have counseling if one person has a good reason. Sorry, but here's my love tough response. You sent the letter, which was to "convince" her how great you are and became in the last year and a half. She doesn't care or maybe your changes are too late for where she's at. This is the way it is with a lot of WAWs. Right now you need to be patient, instead of leaping with letters and calling her lawyer. Remember: Don't believe anything said (including what she told lawyer) and only half of what you see. You're wanting answers and all of us do. As Lost pointed out. We neglect to be real and follow our true self. I was a WAW after my xH was unfaithful 2x. Perhaps if he wouldn't have lept to all of his own conclusions, been patient, focused on kids, didn't harrass me thru legal system, etc., I might have saw the light sooner. You need to listen to advice you're asking for DBing. When you don't hear from somebody in a day or two, you do and do and then turn around and ask, "What should I do now?" Will you listen and actually try to GAL or do a 180? Something different than what you're doing, which is the same thing that's not working?
