Matt,

Glad you had a great time last night!! Good for you...now you see why we urge all newbies to GAL. And sooo much more fun that way, isn't it?

Originally Posted By: Matt165
Got home to my W sleeping on the couch and complaining that she was trying to get to sleep. It was only 11:00 and I was trying to be as quiet as possible. This morning W got up early and didn't seem to like that I went out last night. I don't get that as she keeps telling me to do more of this kind of thing.


This is typical for the MLCer. In my experience, prior to my MLC, I was very comfortable with Ms. Wonka going out with friends and events without me. While I was in my MLC, I was feeling really miserable and feeling tons of pressure. Yep, it did bother me when Ms. Wonka went out because I perceived that as "why is she going out to have fun while I am so freakin' miserable??!!" and did try to bring her down to my level to make myself feel better about my 'miserableness'. It also piqued my curiosity as well. Ms. Wonka's being mysterious did that trick for me.

How wild was that?! Hey...that was my MLC-addled thinking process.

Just ignore W's moods and continue doing GAL stuff.