So I contacted her L and asked why she don't agree with me having more time with the boys. I was shocked to hear that she thinks im an unfit parent and I don't have enough experience to properly parent them!

Im so disappointing that she thinks this about me. Every time I asked to have them overnights I was shut down and now she is trying to use I dont see them enough as a reason against me. L also said there were some allegations of abuse. Wow, not sure where that came from as Im the nicest guy you would ever meet.

Im concerned about her mental health if this is how she is viewing the past. Even her L suggested we go to Family Therapy to find ways to communicate before we go to court. When I suggested we go to family counseling she says talk to my Lawyer.

What do I do now?


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.