I must be nuts to still have hope

[RedHawk98]

Minor troubles mostly stemmed from a slow loss of confidence in myself.
I had a lot of difficulty changing my job and I began to struggle to contribute equally.
I also stopped dressing up as much for a short time.
There were also a few misunderstandings developing due to me becoming a little withdrawn. Especially as my grandfather health was quite the rollercoaster before his passing.
(My wife only made one request for changes in me a few days before he died. Obviously, I was not as fast to comply as she wanted)

I have read both books. But at this point, where I am being ignored despite being positive and helpful, I'm at a loss as to what to do now.