Marching forward with deal breakers in hand

[mdu]

Firming up weekend GAL plans as I know that is my best strategy for helping me feel better and get through another kid free weekend...and will help me become stronger in general:

*tonight - S's bday party. I will be happy, upbeat, open to H if he approaches me but doing my own thing and focusing on kids/S!
*tomorrow morning - running then kids tball/baseball. Again, I will be happy/upbeat, open to H but doing my own thing and focusing on the kids.
*tomorrow afternoon - meeting Mom for lunch and then visiting Dad
*tomorrow late afternoon - clothes shopping for myself
*tomrrow evening - out dinner and dancing with friends. NO talk about H!
*Sunday morning - running then meeting a friend to go to a foot spa.
*Sunday afternoon/evening - errands and a friend is coming over to help me empty/clean the hot tub.

I'm doing decent week to week coming up with GAL plans but feel like I need some more longer terms ones. Will think on that as well this weekend.