"While we did have some minor troubles in our marriage, things were blown totally out of proportion by her to justify her leaving. And her continued refusal to come home or at least take steps that might lead to a reconcilliation."
Detail what the troubles were. Although they might seem "minor" to you, they may not have been for her.
Have you read DB or DR?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.