Thank you.
In the UK, there is no real waiting period. There are three steps that have to be taken by the petitioner.i have done the first, which is to issue grounds for divorce. She signed and returned them. You don't even have to agree with the grounds.

Today I sent a text saying that I believe that now is the perfect time for us to resolve our differences. So that we might move on under better terms.
(No more lies for example and the real truth)
I have no idea if this person that abused his managerial position is still involved with my wife or if they are living together.

The D didn't wake her up. However, I sent a letter last week explaining that my failings were down to a slow loss of confidence. Not that I never listened to her.

Of course, the general belief of her friends and most of my family is that I almost deserved this.

Last edited by RedHawk98; 05/30/14 03:34 PM.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014