Pluto, take this int he spirit it's given-STFU!

Don't argue or try to be right about whether she told you when she was moving. Say "OK, thanks for telling me."

Why this? "reinforced that it was her decision to leave and that I wasn't trying to force her out - that I didn't want this."

Slow down guy, you're trying so hard to control her. Let her go, wish her well. Give her space.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss