I'm totally fine with H taking S. What I'm not so fine with is H wants 1). me to coordinate it since the Mom reached out to me and 2). to hang at the house while S is there. To me it feels like H is wanting to use me/the house to make this situation easier for himself. It kind of feels like he wants to pretend like we are not separated for this event. Why shouldn't he be made to handle it like a separated couple - he coordinates with the Mom himself and figures out where he will spend his time while S is there?
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
