Hi FY, I was on a different site back in Dec. where I was being pressured, hard, to take action. All it did was make things worse and may have sealed the end of my marriage. Never let anyone pressure you into doing anything! Right after b-day, my W didn't want me to touch her at all. Later that changed and she would accept some touches here and there. Things were progressing nicely until something unrelated happened and messed up everything.
You seem to have a pretty good R with your W right now. Keep doing what YOU feel is right and what works for you. Best of luck!
