Moving on isn't a bad thing B....It actually has to happen. It doesn't mean you move on to separating, but moving on from the emotional pain you both have encountered.
You have to move on from the person who would have an affair and find your inner strength to be a better man. Act from your core instead of from reactions to the outside world.
You wife needs to move on from the pain you have caused her.
You know B....The next time you two have an emotional charged conversation like this, I suggest giving your wife an option. Have the conversation by text....or try to have it face to face. While texting does seem to work very good for you two, one thing is missing. She cannot see your body language....so everything you say is just words. Now if you can mix yours words of sorrow over what you did with the same thing in body language...Maybe she will start believing that you are sorry. That you aren't out hunting for a new girl.....and that you love her....and that the new B isn't going to walk again.
Remember the book I had you read...Each time she mentions looking for another woman, she is testing you...testing your resolve...testing your word....Be the man you want to be...be the better man.
