Left Behind Newlywed

[Pluto]

So WAW informed me last night that she's moving out as of this weekend. That was the first time she told me, but she acted like we'd talked about it before (she used the line "50 thousand times already").

Lately she's used this same tactic to talk about her impending move - previously it was that she was planning to move in June.. then suddenly she told me she had a new place to live lined up (and acted like she told me before when I found out for the first time) - but didn't have a firm moving date, but that they were flexible. Now, she tells me that she's said June 1st all along and doesn't understand why I don't listen to her. Now, I have an exceptionally good memory (something I'm known for amongst our friends and family)... so I'm confident that I'm forgetting important facts like these.

Is this script?

We had a fairly tense talk about her move and what she was taking (or leaving), but there was also some R talk - she told me she didn't hate me and couldn't understand why I think she does. She also told me she didn't like that we were 'at each other's throats' and felt that we couldn't co-exist.

I didn't really know how to respond to that, other than I acknowledged and apologized for my role in how we got to this point, and that I wasn't trying to make things unlivable for her in our house.

I also reinforced that it was her decision to leave and that I wasn't trying to force her out - that I didn't want this.

It's going to be a tough weekend watching her pack and walk out on me...