I trimmed everything back because it was so incredibly overgrown. I am still trying to weed everything down. I have lots of lily of the valley (which the rabbits love), some tiger lilies which haven't bloomed yet, and a huge lilac bush which is my favorite!!! There is still a lot to take care of and a lot to weed out. The neighbor came over to let me know he was impressed with what I have done. He said the other renters didnt do anything with the yard. It looks like it has been overgrown for years. And the more I trim back the faster the stuff grows back. I trimmed the dead branches off the lilac bush and it grew upwards two feet I swear!!!
I don't want to put too much work and money into the yard because I don't know how long I will live here.
Went to D's bb practice tonight. It was the first time that H and I have been at one of the kids events in years where we were actually civil to each other. It's strange. I don't trust him, and I don't particularly want to be around him, but I'm not holding onto the anger. My kids come first and I am trying to reconcile our relationship somewhat for the benefit of the kids. But it is strange letting go of the anger and the frustration and just being.
I still think he's an idiot though.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
