He used to work for me almost 1.5 years ago.
She started to be too friendly with him (not romantic) while she worked with me. I found it, confronted her and she stopped. Back then I also texted him nicely saying i respect him and to please cease contacting my wife.
I know he left the country for 6 months and then he got a job 3 hrs from where we live. As far as I know they did stop communication but my guess is move he settled they may have continued and it grew more once she saw the opportunity and excuse to call it quits with me

Now that we separated she has been hiding the fact he is a prime reason for our separation and her calling divorce.

He is single, 26 years old and she is 33.
I saw where he told her he was hesitant to be the rebound guy(he told her he didn't want to be serious to soon) because he knows this will not be blessed by God. He affirmed that they started while we were still married, and not separated.


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms