Thanks AJ, It's hard not to have some anger though.
I have to have the dog put down tomorrow, he's 16 and not well, and then first thing this morning the people are here for h's fancy shed that I guess he didn't make the payments for and I have to fork over almost 1k so they don't haul it away with all his tools in it. Then he tells me I can only take 500 bucks for 2 weeks of support - he needs the remainder 1200.00 for himself.
So needless to say anger was in full force today.
I do have counseling tomorrow so I'm hoping to be able to get some perspective and then the lawyer. But I didn't let my anger get the best of me, I didn't say anything about the shed or the money or the dog. I didn't respond to him in any way. Just left it be. I did have to give myself a time out first though. LOL At least I'm learning not to react like I normally would. It wouldn't have done any good anyway.
But even after all that I did go out to lunch with a friend and then went with both my d's to see gd's first gymnastics class and then all us girls went out to dinner. I couldn't do that even 2 weeks ago. So some progress being made for me.
