That is awesome about the fact you have a secret admirer! Who knows maybe he will be transferred back at some point. Like Claire said just the fact that you know someone has taken a shine to you will do wonders for your self-esteem and the aura that you will give off now.
I am kinda in a similar deal. A new girl has started at work she is much much younger so I keep that in mind. She is in a R so that helps keep it on certain level also. I find myself really caring about this woman's well being though and she seems to know that I do because she is pretty straight forward about her feelings on life etc.. and wants my advice/thoughts at points. I try to use my experiences with all that is going on to give honest answers to her questions.
She had a terrible childhood from what she has told me, a lot like my W. It has to be something about me that brings these women into my life in certain ways.
Of course like you this woman says my W is crazy for wanting to leave me. I know it is just words but they are nice to hear.
Hang in there!!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
