I've learned the hard way that they have become people that are not trustworthy anymore.
I wouldn't say he doesn't care. It's more that he cares about something else more, Tears.
Himself.
Like a drowning person, he's consumed by his own survival. Drinking, OW, etc - all medications. All symptoms.
You're right to be angry. Who wouldn't be?
But don't let that go on too long. It'll take on a life of it's own if you're not careful. Feel it, and let it go else you'll become a victim. That's not fair to you and not a good place to be.
When you set your boundaries, like you did above, be sure to keep them. And do yourself a favor - stop with the expectations that he'll do what he says. He might, but...
Hang in there.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."