I received a secret admirer letter in our interdepartmental mail. Based on the text, the person rides the bus with me and has a crush on me but is now leaving the state so wanted to let me know. There are some personal details in there that are a bit creepy (like knowing what my college major was, what I do for work, how did he even figure out my last name??) but still kind of flattering. My coworkers and I spent some time pondering it and determined what building the envelope is from but that's all we know.
So...do I show it to H or not? On the one hand, showing that others are interested in me could help him think about not losing me. On the other hand...it's not really his business anymore.
The letter mentions how lucky my husband is to have me as a partner....wish HE knew that and too bad I couldn't find this guy before he left the state!
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
and too bad I couldn't find this guy before he left the state!