Good to see you are progressing with your piecing. I too feel for you and the physical intimacy. In my situation it seems like I have to dig out of a hole and then progress to the physical aspect of the relationship instead of starting at square one.

Keep staying patient and in time it should come. My W and I are currently piecing too. We have been kissing, hugging, cuddling and even ML twice over the last month. But unlike your situation, we do not live together. I spend the nights there different times during the week and we spent a long weekend together out of town as a family, but don't currently cohabitate.

The physical should come around for you with continued piecing efforts. I notice my W getting more and more comfortable with me as our piecing progresses.

I am happy for you and your W that you are piecing.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15