own buz 30: My self-value, dropping the rope.

[Georgiabelle]

Magic,

I'm with GM. I have many male friends and a good sense of humor. The innuendos mean nothing.

The reason I told you the story of my xbf is that after we broke up, we had lunch, dinner, and went to events together MANY times post break up. No kisses, no sex, only hugs after we broke up. Heck, I went to his house for Xmas post break up. We dated others. We were not dating. We genuinely enjoyed each other's company. It may sound strange, but it's not impossible. At no point after that were we in a R-we were simply good friends. And nothing was fuzzy about that.

You also work with xbf. Keep in mind that most would want to have a pleasant working relationship. Yes, you WERE in a R, however now you are business associates. It is not uncommon for business associates to grab lunch or a drink.

It just seems like you are clutching on for dear life. You can't move forward until you let go. You get such wonderful advice and I know you want xbf. He is NOT the only man on the planet. Focus on moving forward for your best self:-)