The sale of the house will be completed in two weeks. She has already signed a lease and has been packing. That isn't what really concerns me. She's already written up the petition and is asking me to review it. There aren't any lawyers involved yet. I won't fight the legal divorce and I won't fight her on trivial things. I'm at the point where I care so much more about my own happiness than restoring the relationship. I've been focusing on myself but still not completely detached. I doubt there is any way for her to see that I offer anything better than an OM which may or may not exist. I see and talk to her every day. Until school is out for the summer at the end of next week that won't change. I don't expect any improvement until we can truly spend some time apart and when she is out of the house which is such a source of unhappiness for her. Additionally, I'm having second thoughts about whether or not I want it to work. Maybe that's just lack of patience.
Me - 44 Her - 35 S - 6 D - 8 Married - 8 Together - 11 Separated - 5/17/2014 Divorce filed - 6/3/2014
