Thor, Have you spent some time with the questions that Wonka asked you? Ones I'm specifically wondering about are the 'how are you addressing/ what are you doing about it types of questions'.
Fear...told you we weren't done with this one. Since you've said you're religious I can go here a little with you. I'm sure you know in the end God won't give you more than you can handle. If that's the case maybe he's allowing this to happen for a reason, maybe to force a change in you? No one knows His plan for you but something to think about huh. Also why not turn to him when you're feeling this fear? There are so many scriptures you can say to yourself when feeling trapped in this stinking thinking (Deuteronomy 31:6, 2 Timothy 1:7, Chronicles 28:20, Isaiah 41:10 & 13, .....).
Originally Posted By: Thornton
If you're fears come true then what happens?
Panic ensues creating more fear.
What I was thinking about more than this is what is the outcome? Few examples: you were afraid to lose control of R, you were afraid of being left, etc... When you start looking at it from a different way a lot of your fears may have already come true even when you let that fear control you and make you do or act in detrimental ways. Thinking about it that way, does it make sense to let your fears control you anymore?
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
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