Our stories have some similarities. My H also initially agreed to MC (called the counselor himself) and broke it off with OW initially. Seemed very sincere in his interest in reconciling but then pulled away and we separated for 10 days. Then agreed to MC and working on it again and then pulled away and we are now separated again since May 1 (at my request, I could not take his ambivalence anymore). He has never said he wants D but also never really committed to the work required to make this right. I have no evidence that he reconnected with OW but I've strongly suspected it. I am also most angry about the back and forth/ambivalence about working on the marriage. I don't get it and it's very frustrating. All I know for sure is he's clearly highly confused about what he really wants. How long I am willing to wait out his confusion, I am not sure.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
