DBing coach will help. He wants to keep his BF, and have his piece of cake too. Do you want that? I didn't settle for that and will not. I stand firm that if H wants a D then I'm done with a R at all. Now, my sitch is such that he won't MC or even try, but I went dark when he wasn't communicating. You have a daughter together and have to communicate, but you don't have to be BF. You can be friendly, polite and caring. You need to give him a reason not to D you. That's my opinion. Others please respond if I'm wrong and misguiding Hope456.