Yes, I know WAW and I have issues that we need to work on but does that mean we can't have simple friendly, non-relationship exchanges as a means to work on our friendship? Or keep the lines of communication open?
I'm also having a hard time detaching from how quickly this all happened. I know that I zero control over it but I still often wonder the why's, how's etc.
Because I don't know what's going on with WAW, I'm feeling stuck. Do I continue to follow the painful path of DB? Or do I completely cut her off, tell her to come get her things from my house, and tell her take me off of FB as her boyfriend and hope that makes me feel better?
Again with the "buts" ????
Look at it this way...
You are on a break....
You have zero internet or any way to reach her...
You are unsure of how long she will be gone....
DO NOT ring any bells that cannot be un-rung....
Stay inside of your own head for now...
You seem to be doing really well, and grasp the concept ( from what I have read that you post to others).
You just need to step back, and learn to apply it to your own schidt....