Let her get mad, she can only push your buttons if you let her.

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I don't want her to think I'm still Plan B and that she can just move back if/when things get too tough 'out there' for her.
You have no control over what she thinks of you. That's why tactics don't work and often backfire. You can do something that you think makes you look strong and she thinks you're an a-hole.

Again, let her get angry and think you're an a-hole as long as you're doing what's best for you and you're being honest and acting with dignity. It's these differences in your thinking that DBing is all about.

Doing things to teach someone a lesson is all about control.
The only person you control is you. Life will teach people lessons, that's not our job.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss