We are in the process of drafting up paperwork so nothing is a court order yet. I did tell H about how much I have been taking on with the kids financially and I've been able to make it happen, albeit by the skin of my teeth without robbing Peter to pay Paul.
H will never ever be happy. He's always chasing his tail to accomplish something. I'm wondering who he is going to borrow the money from? I know that is what is going to happen. I bet by this time OW's mom and dad are getting strapped. He claimed at our mediation he still owes his boss $500 from July of 2012. Really?
He is so full of excuses and blame but I dare say maybe it's starting to sink in that this doesn't solve problems and won't make the issues go away.
I withstood the storm and I'm still standing. I didn't think I could do it, but I did. You guys were a huge help to me so thank you. I also thank family, friends and God. I know it's not over till it's over, but I feel like calmer waters are coming.
H texted me again at 3:45 am and asked me to call him. Good Lord man! Don't you ever sleep?
Maybe he is part vampire now. It would explain the hair.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
