WH,
I agree w/Bea about the teeth pulling and admitting it.

However, here he is crying the blues to you about money troubles and asking if he could work with you about the funds and yet, you are the one that's been struggling financially for a month or so yourself. After all of this time, he now wants to work with you and the fact that he's actually talking to you about his financial situation is very different from the man he was just 6 months ago.

WH, be careful and think hard on whether or not you'll agree to allow him to be flexible w/the cards and funding, etc. You don't want to do something that'll go against the court orders, etc.

They always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Boy, he sure found out very early in the game and you aren't even divorced yet. What a shame the situation had to come to this for him to realize money can't be stretched very far in this economy. I do hope he can get his finances in order and very soon.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.