Nero, I can relate to what you’ve been feeling about being on the fence. I am not miserable and in pain either, but I still don’t know what I want to do next about my situation. It must be a lot harder when your H is still around some, still coming to fix things, still coming to visit you. And yet, he is not showing any desire to work on your M.

I wonder when the time comes when I will feel like cannot continue any longer, like uR says. You posted on my thread that I might be one of those who are stuck. You are so right about it. But, what do we do about it? I’m out of options, except for actually filing for D.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state