Wife is Continuing Affair-When Do I Start LRT? II

[PeterV2]

I said it must be awful to feel like that, and left it at that.

BINGO! That's the right approach! Way to go!

Just for a laugh Google "It's Not About The Nail" ... so true.

Now back to the more serious stuff.
My W has talked about suicide too. It's due to all the turmoil in their heads. I think that the turmoil is a good thing because it's not a comfortable place to be. She will need to do something to relieve the turmoil and she doesn't know yet that the thing to do is end the A and return to the marriage and reconcile. That may take a while for her to figure out.
Patience....