You know FY, it seems to me you got a lot of feedback
Just one thing to add - it seems that you are trying to walk that line between her needs and yours. Keep that in mind - it's not easy to walk that line.
As you take in the advice, keep at it!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
