...And she goes back to OM this past Friday. She didn't actually come out and say it. I was able to guess so because she didn't contact me all day. She has actually never said she was with OM any time. I've had to guess it every time. Is that normal or is she just kind of a coward?
I was upset with her on Friday and asked her if she actually meant what she said about the apologetic email she sent me a few weeks ago. She said she did and said she would go into more detail later. Of course she hasn't yet. I told her on Monday I no longer need an explanation and all future communication will be about the divorce and info about the kids.
I also told her that as long as she continues the relationship with OM I will not be friends with her. So I'm NC with her at the moment. I have not spoken to her in person or on the phone since last Thursday.
Anyways I've been getting involved in more sports lately. I've got the kids with me basically full time, so I still have their activities to do with them. I think I'll take them out this Saturday to do something fun.
Still need to tell the kids that me and W are over and that W is having a baby. I'll be making sure the kids are still excited to have a new half sister. Uggghh.. not looking forward to doing so, but it's the right thing to do.
It's hard being so gracious to somebody who gives you nothing back in return.