...what they said about her knowing you are wanting more and it's pressuring is exactly on...
Agreed.
Look, the less pressure you put on her the 'safer' you are to her.
Maybe a days comes when pressure is part of the plan of action, as in a hard fast boundary, this or that sort of thing, but that doesn't seem to be the case right now.
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