FY's W has absolutely no reason to stay. And she IS depressed, just that alone would make intimacy more difficult.
He has been seeing improvement, and from my reading and talking to people about MLC, included a couple who have been through their own, that s3x and intimacy is the last thing to come back in a lot of cases. All the other stuff he has been reporting had to come first.
I get why he is waiting still, his W and mine have several commonalities, one of which being they are SLOW to change or decide anything.
He is not done yet, and has stated that he is not interested in another R with someone new if this fails, so...what's he got to lose waiting some more before confronting/pushing the issue?
FY, the only thing *I* would gently "nudge" for right now is IC for her SA and depression, and then some MC.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
