JOB: "He relies on and sees you as a mother figure, someone who will take care of his needs if he needs to call home. Bright, you are not his mother or his employee and it's time to change that perception. He's living his life the way he wants to and yet, you are attempting to live yours, but you can't get very far because he's posting about what he needs you to do all of the time from afar. Bright, I've walked this path w/you since you came to the forum, it's time to try something new. Why? Because he's going to continue doing what he's doing because his world is nice and comfortable and he doesn't have to worry...Bright is right where I left her. It's time to think about what Bright wants and needs and not worry so much about Mr Bright."
JUST described me too. idk- i think same thing- then i think only thing i can do to shake it up is leave & walk out the door. it's not that i thnk about what he wants so much - as i don't know what the heck i want . i want it all to be gone and to feel happy. aside from that- i can't even think of what i'd DO TO MAKE A POINT.
problem is, IF I LEAVE - then i've got to pay my own way- find a job(of any sort- nevermind with okay pay) and i lose the "company" half the time, (which some nights seems better than none of the time". being all alone is okay sometimes- but it really $ucks alot of the time. just kind of sad-ish.
it doesn't seem so cut and clear to me what to do. you're rite tho- he's got the perfect life- why change it.????
but then, what about ole mwd saying we're supposed to just gal, act as if- just continue on, no matter what the heck he's doing and let him reel it on out??? til he is "done" being nuts?
i'm lost pretty much about what the heck we're "supposed" to be doing some days. i guess i'm not the only one out here "stuck".
so bright- what're you thinking of doing? okay by me if you're stuck also on that stinkin fence - lots of company up here.
i just can't get off the mark. i have no energy or ideas or guts yet...
