New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

Oh so how the information flows....... when it comes it just keeps pouring.....

I finally got up the nerve to contact H's first wife. He had just divorced her when we met, saying after 14yrs together and about 5 of them trying for a baby they just grew apart. I believed every word, his house was on the market and he randomly had appointments with his lawyer.

Ummmmmmmmmm I was an affair!!!!! I had no clue, I feel so dirty and horrible right now! He had 2 affairs previous to me, each one with someone at work and ending when his wife found out. Her thinking their marriage was ok after each one. The third one (me) his wife was completely clueless, and he just walked out on her (while they were trying for a baby) one day he seemed happy and the next he was asking for a divorce completely "in love" with someone else (me).

His ex wife is happily remarried and is not angry with me, said she wished me well and although checking out of a marriage with baby #3 on the way is low, she wasn't THAT surprised he did this.......

So any guesses on how long his new relationship will last?