Michael Corleone: Just when I thought I was out... they pull me back in.
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Hi FY, Before I say anything...
Support Forums guys. Not nitpick the crap out each other.
I am honored that you took my words as a sort of mantra. There is a lot of wisdom around here. And for the record I did give up I was looking forward to a different type of life when out of the blue she wanted to work on us.
But because she seemed sincere and I put down some MASSIVE boundaries that she had to accept before I entertained the idea of working on us, I didn't give up on her, in so much that I gave her this last chance.
What was different about this 'last' chance compared to any of the others? I was giving this chance to her, for her, not because I wanted it. It was her rope to run with or hang herself with. I didn't want it it wasn't my dream come true that she apologize and wanted to come back.
I'm going to be honest I don't have the time to go through 3K worth of posts. I did read this particular thread.
When it comes to sex.
If your wife is in MLC.
You aren't having sex. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK