hope456 - accepting my new reality

[Georgiabelle]

It isn't my job to rescue my H. Still, I hate to see him struggling so much.

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Hi Hope,

Just catching up on your sitch. No, it isn't your job to rescue your h. He has financial responsibilities and you should not try to ease his responsibility. I don't say that to be harsh, however it is part of the maturation process and independence. This goes for everyone....our decisions have consequences. We have all felt some positive consequences and some we did not enjoy. Whether it is the WAS, LBS, and anyone else. Your h is a big boy and must learn to take care of himself. I do know how difficult it is to stop trying to "fix" our hs. (Raising hand over here)

Good for you for taking your d to therapy. My older 2 see a therapist and it has been beneficial for them, particulary my d9. It's very difficult to see your children in pain and struggling. I look at therapy as a chance to help my kids learn to cope with some of the curveballs life throws them. They certainly didn't ask for this.

Hang in there and focus on you and your d. Good luck with the potential new job prospects! That's always exciting:)