Thanks owl! I like your reward idea, maybe I will give myself a bit of money ($1?) when I catch myself 'being good' and successfully change my thinking to something more positive. And then when I collect enough $$ I'll reward myself with a manicure, a new top or something else I would enjoy.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14