It might be a good idea to send an email or call the Estate agent's supervisor and inform him/her that you are not being kept apprised of the situation. Dealing directly w/that person isn't working out and he should be advising both of you at the same time, via email, text, etc. He knows the situation and shouldn't be relying on your X to tell you. This is not a good business practice.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
