Magic, Did he actually come out and ask you to go? From your previous posting he said he was "thinking of asking you". That isn't asking you. Why jump to conclusions before you are even asked? We've spent best part of today discussing something that may not even happen. As I recall, your xbf has said he's thinking about asking you on several occasions and never follows through...this could be another one of those incidents.
Also, I want to point out that YOU stated in a previous posting that this about a variety of food, mingling w/associates and high end auto viewing. I would say that this is a "business" social since your business is in autos. This is not a fun and games social, but a business social in the mix.
Until he actually point blank asks you to go, there's no need for additional discussion about whether to go or not. Bottom line, you'll know what you want to do if that time occurs.
It's time to put the focus back on you and what you are doing today. Are you super busy? Do you have a women's meeting this week?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
