Thanks Wonka. I am going to deep breath more, GALing it at my first Qui-Gon Thursday and just try to cry my face off before "D" disclosure day with kids and inlaws (will be done separately)so i am strong there. and not a mess.
You are right and I know this that i can't change her at all
I need to detach and go dark...in my own head at least till we physically separate.
will get used to my new ally time which will take some getting used to as patience has never been a good friend...
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
