Relationship advice from a mans perspective. No dad to go to, and he was older and had given me great advice before on non related issues. We formed a friendship (I thought) through working together. He was a former pastor, so I thought he'd be the one person who wouldn't blindly take a side and could give me sound advice on my sitch.

His family isn't talking to me, mine want to strangle my H, and the friends that know don't understand why I would ever bother trying to stay.


Me- 29 H - 36
T - 5y M - 2y
D - 11 months
BD#1 June 2013
BD#2 H files 10/28/13
Retrouvaille Nov 13
BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14
Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set
Supposedly he's moving out?